Archive for August, 2008
Posted by kathavarta on August 31, 2008
Children were enthusiastically rehearsing and decorating the rural school for their approaching concert. As I glanced up from my teacher’s desk, Patty stood waiting to lodge her urgent request.
“Every year I g-g-g-get to do quiet stuff. The other kids are always in a p-p-p-play or something. Talking. This year, I w-w-want to do a p-p-p-poem, myself!”
As I looked into those eager eyes, all possible excuses fizzled. Patty’s yearning drew from me a promise that in a day or two she would have a special part – a “reciting” part. That promise proved to be very difficult to keep.
None of my resource books had any useful selections. In desperation, I stayed up most of the night writing a poem, carefully avoiding those letters that trick the tongue. It was not great literature, but it was custom-tailored to cope with Patty’s speech problem.
After only a few brief readings, Patty had memorized all the verses and was prepared to dash through them. Somehow we had to control that rush without shattering her enthusiasm. Day after day, Patty and I plodded through recitals. She meticulously matched her timing to my silent mouthing. She accepted the drudgery, eagerly anticipating her first speaking part. Concert night found the children in a frenzy of excitement.
In a dither the master of ceremonies came to me, waving his printed program. “There has been a mistake! You have listed Patty for a recitation. That girl can’t even say her own name without stuttering.” Because there was not time enough for explanations, I brushed his objection aside with, “We know what we are doing.”
The entertainment was moving well. As item after item was presented, parents and friends responded with encouraging applause. When it was time for the questionable recitation, the MC again challenged me, insisting that Patty would embarrass everyone. Losing patience, I snapped, “Patty will do her part. You do yours. Just introduce her number.”
I flitted past the curtains and sat on the floor at the foot of the audience.
The MC appeared flustered as he announced, “The next recitation will be by . . .um . . . Patty Connors.”
An initial gasp from the audience was followed by strained silence.
The curtain parted to show Patty, radiant, confident. Those hours of rehearsing took possession of the moment. In perfect control, the little charmer synchronized her words to my silent mouthing below the footlights. She articulated each syllable with controlled clarity, and without a splutter or stammer.
With eyes sparkling, she made her triumphant bow.
The curtain closed. A hushed silence held the audience.
Gradually the stillness gave way to suppressed chuckles, and then to enthusiastic applause. Utterly thrilled, I floated backstage.
My little heroine threw her arms around me and, bubbling with joy, blurted out, “We d-d-d-did it!”

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Posted by kathavarta on August 31, 2008
I dreamed I had an interview with God.
“Come in,” God said. “So, you would like to interview Me?”
“If you have the time,” I said.
God smiled and said: “My time is eternity. It is enough to do everything.
What questions do you have in mind to ask me?”
I asked, “What surprises you most about mankind?”
God thought for a few moments and then answered:
“That they get bored of being children, are in a rush to grow up, and then long to be children again.
That they lose their health to make money and then lose their money to restore their health.
That by thinking anxiously about the future, they forget the present, such that they live neither for the present nor the future.
That they live as if they will never die, and they die as if they had never lived”
God placed my hands in His and we were silent for while.
Then I asked, “As a parent, what are some of life’s lessons you want your children to learn?”
God replied with a smile:
“To learn that they cannot make anyone love them. What they can do is to let themselves be loved.
To learn that what is most valuable is not what they have in their lives, but who they have in their lives.
To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others. All will be judged individually on their own merits, not as a group on a comparison basis.
To learn that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.
To learn that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in persons we love, and that it takes many years to heal them.
To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness. To learn that there are persons that love them dearly, but simply do not know how to express or show their feelings.
To learn that money can buy everything but happiness.
To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see it totally different.
To learn that a true friend is someone who knows everything about them…and likes them anyway.
To learn that it is not always enough that they be forgiven by others, but that they have to forgive themselves.”
I sat there for awhile enjoying my visit with God. I thanked Him for His time and for all that He has done for me and my family.”
He replied, “Anytime. I’m here 24 hours a day. All you have to do is ask for me, and I’ll answer”
Moral:
People will forget what you did…but people will never forget how they felt when they were with you.

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Posted by kathavarta on August 31, 2008
An Eye Witness Account from New York City, on a cold day in December…(Hopefully, this is the kind of thing that happens, frequently, everywhere…).
A little boy about 10 years old was standing before a shoe store on roadway, barefoot, peering through the window, and shivering with cold.
A lady approached the boy and said, “My little fellow, why are you looking so earnestly in that window?”
“I was asking God to give me a pair of shoes,” was the boys reply.
The lady took him by the hand and went into the store, and asked the clerk to get half a dozen pairs of socks for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of water and a towel, which he quickly brought to her. She took the little fellow to the back part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed his little feet and dried them with a towel.
By this time the clerk had returned with the socks. Placing a pair upon the boy’s feet, she also purchased him a pair of shoes. After tying up the remaining pairs of socks, she gave them to him.
She patted him on the head and said, “No doubt, my little fellow, you feel more comfortable now?”
As she turned to go, the astonished lad caught her by the hand, and looking up in her face, with tears in his eyes, answered the question with these words: “Are you God’s wife?
Moral:
Moral Stories restore a little of our faith in human.

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Posted by kathavarta on August 30, 2008
Roles And How We Play Them:
Whenever I’m disappointed with my spot in my life, I stop and think about little Jamie Scott.
Jamie was trying out for a part in a school play.
His mother told me that he’d set his heart on being in it, though she feared he would not be chosen.
On the day the parts were awarded, I went with her to collect him after school.
Jamie rushed up to her, eyes shining with pride and excitement. “Guess what Mom,” he shouted, and then said those words that will remain a lesson to me:
“I’ve been chosen to clap and cheer.”

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Posted by kathavarta on August 30, 2008
As I was driving home from work one day, I stopped to watch a local little League baseball game that was being played in a park near my home.
As I sat down behind the bench on the first-baseline, I asked one of the boys what the score was.
“We’re behind 14 to nothing,” he answered with a smile. “Really,” I said. “I have to say you don’t look very discouraged.”
“Discouraged,” the boy asked with a puzzled look on his face, “why should we be discouraged? We haven’t been up to bat yet.”

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Posted by kathavarta on August 30, 2008
Teacher Debbie Moon’s first graders were discussing a picture of a family.
One little boy in the picture had a different colour hair than the other family members.
One child suggested that he was adopted and a little girl named Jocelynn Jay said, “I know all about adoptions because I was adopted.”
“What does it mean to be adopted?” asked another child.
“It means,” said Jocelynn, “that you grew in your mommy’s heart instead of her tummy.”

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